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Send to a friend My husband recently came home from being incarcerated for two years. I stuck with him through the entire ordeal and was truly faithful up until the last four months of his bid. One day, I met a married man and he and I became friends. He was totally aware that I was married and waiting for my husband to come home but still wanted to be with me. Eventually we had sex (it was okay) and he started to help me out financially because I was trying to hold the fort down by myself. He constantly showered me with gifts and always gave me money. To make a long story short my husband is now home. I love my husband but I think that I love this man also. He has expressed to me how we should both get a divorce and be with each other. Part of me wants to go for it but the other part is like stay with your husband. The married man can support me financially and constantly showers me with gifts. My husband on the other hand cannot shower me with gifts but the sex is great! I am so confused and I feel that I need to let someone go before my husband finds out and kills me and/or my lover. HELP! Any suggestions.Posted 8 hours ago
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- I think you should weigh the pros and cons on the decision you are about to make,but also keep in mind that a man is going to tell you what he thinks you want to hear. Does he have children with his wife? If so, don't be so sure that he'll leave his family. I know it may seem like a hard decision, but remember that money doesn't buy happiness. just because he makes you happy now because he "showers you with gifts", doesn't mean he's for you. If you truly love your husband, I say try to work it out and consider counseling.
Posted 1 month ago - Look, how man men say that they will leave their wife and it never happens and really. What is up with I think I love him? That means I don't love him but I like the things he gives me.
The sex is okay with the new dude. Oh hell no your husband is tearing the azz up and you thing you will settle for okay. HELL NO!!! Stay where you are and help the man come to the next level.
Dump the married guy he cheated on his wife and he will cheat on you.
Unlce Paul
Posted 2 years ago - You must be young bc to me, there's no issue here. Finances are the most important and the older you get the more difficult things will be for you. Your hubby obviously doesn't have it together or you wouldn't be wondering and asking. He might even be doing the same old thing that got him locked up in the first place. The recividism rate is high for ex cons, over 67% are arrested again (that's just the ones that are caught). Two years does almost nothing to change most cons. My nephew just spent 2 years in prison and started doing the same exact thing within a month after he got out. Some take longer, they might have learned a lesson or two in prison. My brother's the same, he's a lost cause and locked back up again but he stayed out of trouble for a year or two b4 he started back up again.
I spent time running around with those types of bad boys (the sex was often wild) and blew off the good guys (or at least the guys with money) who seemed middle class or straight-laced, and I'm stuck now.
Truthfully, most guys will run around with whoever they want whenever they want anyway. Snatch the married guy up (whether he divorces or not-but if he does marry you even better) and make sure you save the money he gives you, don't blow that cash, bc the posters above may be right, he may eventually leave you too. But take what he has to offer now in $ and companionship and see what happens. If it doesn't work, at least you will have higher expectations than an ex con who probably is still embroiled in the same ole, same ole...and will most likely cheat too. As long as the man isn't beating on you, the one with more cash should win out.
And don't care if people call you a gold digger, they will. But the truth is single women have it harder, and if you're a single mom, then you have to be seriously responsible about the finances. Don't struggle or make your kid struggle bc the sex is good or people think you are money hungry...it isn't worth it. Money can't buy happiness but it can get you damned closer than no money + good sex, just think of all those times you could barely pay the bills and how happy that made you feel. Let that bad boy go.
Posted 2 years ago - I have to agree with the most recent post. What kind of idiot would stay with a person just because of sex. If your current husband is not making moves to try and better himself, then u need to move on. When your living on the street, I guarantee that sex won't be as good!
Posted 3 years ago - The gifts will stop AS SOON AS YOU LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND-i PROMISE YOU!!!
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